Dear Past Me, get a vibrator

Dear Past Me, get a vibrator

It will change your life.

My boyfriend bought me one and honestly it has been such a brilliant, liberating thing to have!

I wish i had plucked up the courage to actually buy one myself ages ago. If i had i know that i would feel more comfortable and familiar with my body now. I also wouldn’t have been reliant on him to give me this sexual understanding and confidence.

I have always found masturbating slightly traumatic as i become very aware of myself and what i’m doing, then get awkward and stop. My vibes (as i like to call her) does most of the work so i feel less self-conscious when mastubating which is definitely a very positive thing!

It also makes my sex (which is already amazing) sooo much better!

Despite, porn, the media and society in general presenting penetrative sex as the main bit of sex, most women can’t orgasm just from it. Vibrators add some clit action which increases pleasure majorly.

However, i feel like i should add a slight disclaimer: it is important not to become completely reliant on them and to be able to know your body without one. They just really help with masturbation if you’re like me and struggle to get out of your head.

It is also important to acknowledge that bodies are different. I have friends who have told me how much they don’t like the feeling of vibrators, which is completely fair enough.

To conclude, female sexuality is beautiful and amazing. Masturbating and receiving pleasure is not gross or wrong it is cool and empowering and pretty damn beautiful.

Hope you have a vibey time.