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Dear past me, do what you want with your body hair

You and your friends (all self-identifying women) were off to meet some boys in your year at school in the park. However, you all suddenly stopped and realised that it was hot, you were in shorts and your leg hair was visible. So you all decided you shouldn’t go.

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March 1, 2019

Dear past me, focus on the small stuff

‘Focus on the small stuff’ has almost become a cliche. It’s the mantra of every self-help coach, the driving concept behind many successful books and the topic of copious podcasts. You’ve probably heard it from a well-intentioned older relative. Yet despite the overexposure and seemingly obviousness of this phrase, it was probably one of the...

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February 12, 2019

Dear Past Me, it is not your job to change his mind

Dear Past Me, You don’t need to change his mind. You don’t need to change the mind of any oppressive man. You do not need to convince him your experience is real. You do need him to admit he is wrong. You do not need to make him woke; you do not him to be...

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February 11, 2019

Dear present me, it is important to notice how gendered the world is…

I have decided to try not to take gender lenses off, but leave them in place, and, rather than trying to eliminate the gender discriminations and differences that appeared, understand them and point them out for other people to realize they are there...

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February 6, 2019

Dear Present Me, you are allowed good sex

So I had sex last night, after months of torturing myself with that “I need to get laid” mindset. But now post sex, I guess I’m just a bit disappointed. And it’s got me thinking – have I ever actually left a sexual encounter thinking ‘fuck that was awesome?’ The answer would be no, not...

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February 6, 2019

Dear Present Me, you have done nothing wrong

I am sharing this not only to vent my frustrations but also with the aim to prove to myself and others that blatant harassment comes in many forms, and that if you feel that somebody is crossing a line, its important to listen to that...

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February 1, 2019

Dear Past Me, take your time

You are not the only one who distrusts and resents that part of their body. When you enter a relationship, you will find it impossible to have sex, and you will feel futile and unloveable as a result...

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January 29, 2019

Dear Past Me, sex is not life

Right now it seems like not having sex life equates to leading no life at all. All your friends are doing it, and you feel its vacancy...

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January 27, 2019

Dear Past Me, get a vibrator

It will change your life.

My boyfriend bought me one and honestly it has been such a brilliant, liberating thing to have!

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Dear past me

January 11, 2019

Dear Present Me, stop being jealous of the strong women my boyfriend compliments

When my boyfriend comments on the personality, actions or sense of style of another woman I often feel jealous rather than impressed. He will say ‘she’s a genius’, ‘she’s a really strong woman you would rate her’, ‘she is so vibey and creative’...

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